Why Bad Boys Get the Girl (And How You Can Do the Same)
Geplaatst op 12-06-2024
Categorie: Lifestyle
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Stop any woman on the street and ask her what kind of guy she wants. Chances are that she’ll say she wants to date a sweet, caring, and understanding guy. But the minute a rude, arrogant jerk shows up, she’ll be hopping onto the back of his motorcycle and riding off into the sunset while the good guy is left in the dust with a wilting bouquet in one hand and a melting box of chocolates in the other.
The saying, “Good guys finish last,” certainly comes to mind here. The ladies are attracted to the bad boy type who puts himself first, acts cocky, and mistreats women. Why? Women are attracted to men who exude confidence and masculinity. They don’t consciously want to be with a jerk, but on an emotional level, jerks are exciting and present a challenge. The good guys finish last because they’re niceness makes them boring and predictable.
Think about it this way: doing nice things for a girl loses its effectiveness over time. The first time you treat a woman nicely, she may be flattered and feel happy about it, but if you do it every day, she’ll come to expect it and it may even start to annoy her. To keep a relationship fresh and exciting, you can’t be nice all the time. You’ve got to inject a little ‘jerk’ into your attitude if you want to succeed with the ladies.
Women are attracted to men who are confident and mysterious, and bad boys have those qualities and then some. Women are excited by the adventure that bad boys bring to relationships. But the good news is that these affairs typically don’t endure the test of time because after the initial thrill passes, most women come to their senses.
How to Use Bad Boy Behavior to Your Advantage
Although bad boys are mostly scum, you can learn a lot about how to attract women by following their lead. The key is to use their bad boy behavior to your advantage without transforming into a total jerk. Here are some ways that you can use bad boy behavior to your advantage:
Run the relationship by your rules – Don’t be a woman’s doormat. It’s your way or the highway when you start the relationship.
Use your poker face – Don’t display your emotions. Act indifferent and keep the ladies guessing. That’s where that irresistible mysteriousness comes from.
Play hard to get – Women want what they can’t have, so play hard to get by making yourself scarce. Guys who are always available bore women.
Be confident – Treat women as if you’re doing them a favor by talking to them. In bad boy land, there’s no such thing as insecurity! If you act like you’re a catch, women will think of you as one.
So, there you have it. Good guys CAN get the girl, but they have to follow the bad boy’s example. Rather than showering a girl with compliments and gifts, start acting indifferent and play hard to get. Girls will go from seeing you as “just a friend” to seeing you as an irresistible hunk if you play the bad boy card right.